If I were to move out and have the tings i need should i?

My boy friends family treats me like i am part of the family. His mom randomly gives me money, and won't let me say no. My b/f can support me, he has a job that pays well, that gives him health, dental, and eye insurance. He also gives me money when i don't even ask, and won't let me say no. I would stay with my family, but they treat me like i am a 12 year old, they won't let me get my licence, a car or a job. When i was in Hawaii i used to work every day for 8 to 10 hours. I can support myself, and i have taken care of myself since i was in second grade with the help of my sister that practically raised me till she graduated in 2005. I am not afraid to grow up, i just want to be treated the way i deserve to be treated. I have talked till i am blue in the face to my parents, but nothing ever changes. What do i do then?
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If you are an adult, then you do whatever makes you happy. You cannot live your life for someone else, even your parents. You will regret it later in life if you do. By the way, even though your boyfriend has good insurance benefits, you are not eligible for them unless you are his wife (legal dependent). You can't be a dependent of your boyfriend.
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