OK, here's the deal. I love my wife, but feel used by her for a place to live, money and have little to no sex?

We've been married less than 2 years and she has violated my trust on several times. Once in a real big way before we even married. I forgave her for it, but I haven't seen real change. She says she loves me unconditionally, but always has conditions to everything we do. We have had to rearrange our home so many times to move in her sister (5 mos.), her sister and her husband (2 mos.), then her son (6 mos) and the last person was my sister (3 mos.) who moved here after my mother passed, and did I hear about that one. Then at Christmas she wants to spends hundreds on her family and kids and grandkids, but my children get little BS items and my grandson about $20 worth of cheap toys. She doesn't work, sometimes cleans (but the house was spotless before her moving in) and sometimes cooks. She refuses to look at a budget (got it/spend it economics). I have had to delay and forego medical appointments and dental care for myself, but she has no problem getting her medical and dental taken care of. The reason I have to continually put things off is I have been paying out so much for hers, I haven't the money to pay for mine and keep my house and pay the bills. I have had to take out loans to keep up with her spending. I try and help all I can at home, but she can only complain and nag me for it, saying it makes her feel worthless because she didn't do it all day while I was at work. She complains when I help my children with bills and expenses, but feels I am obligated to help her son. She is always saying that for me it's all about sex, and yes I would love to have a sex life; but I am not the one refusing sex, she is. I am at my wits end. What should I do? Tell her to leave and not come back or try to work things out?
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