what am I doing Wrong?

Monday, March 14, 2011

Ok....first of i have a six month old....i have two job im a dental assistant still doing intership......and in the night im a dancer......my ex boyfriend takes care of my son but he complains, he doesnt have a job and he feels its too much pressure on him.....i get mad because its tripple hard with my lil one what should i do???
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What are you doing wrong? I guess having a kid without a plan was a start. And stripping for money would be another thing. And you are not a dancer. You don't do ballet or hip hop. And there is nothing exotic about it. You are a stripper. Call it what it is. If it was not shameful women would not pretend it was something it isn't. What could you do right? File for child support, apply for a grant, get a part time job, apply for daycare assistance and spend more time with your child. If this ex is your son's dad, he should be working instead of staying home with the child. If he worked and you had support to pay for childcare while you were in school and worked a normal job you would not have to degrade yourself for money. And being viewed as nothing more than boobs and butt is degrading.
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